Midlife Sex: Really? How About Tomorrow?
Let’s face it, midlife sex takes extra effort. The challenges associated with reaching middle age like stress, overwhelming responsibilities, aging kids and parents, exhaustion and body changes, leave anything that takes extra effort low on the priority list.
I recently read a Newsweek article stating that many middle age couples are in sexless marriages (having sex less than 10 times per year) and half the couples have had to deal with infidelity. So, sex was still desired, yet couples get so wrapped up in their troubles that sex becomes an escape, many times with someone else.
While sex isn’t everything in a marriage, it is what creates intimacy, desire and is a great stress reliever.
Andrea Syrtash, author of How To Cheat On Your Husband (With Your Husband), states that as we grow and change, our relationships often stagnate and we give other things more attention. Syrtash encourages women to be fun, spontaneous and sexy.
If you want to maintain a healthy and happy marriage, you need to put forth the extra effort in the bedroom. Yes, “Sex, it does the body good” is a true statement.
Sex can help you and your marriage in the following ways:
Burns extra calories
You can burn up to 85 calories in a half hour session of lovemaking.
An orgasm does your mind and body good
It’s a huge stress reliever. Check out this research article on the chemical your body produces during orgasm, oxytocin.
Research shows oxytocin released during orgasm also promotes sleep. Now you know why your partner can immediately roll over and fall fast asleep.
Improves heart health
In the Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health, researchers found that having sex two or more times per week reduced the risk of fatal heart attack by half for men.
Sex improves intimacy
The production of oxytocin, the “love hormone”, helps us bond and increases trust.
Sex boosts your self esteem
Sex helps people feel good about themselves.
Sex reduces pain
As levels of oxytocin rise, your levels of endorphins increase, and pain decreases. Research shows things like PMS, headaches and arthritis pain decrease after sex.
So, what are you going to do with this new information? Sex makes you feel better, sleep better, look better and love better. Seems like a little extra effort in the bedroom will lead major benefits in your midlife relationship. Just go do it!